The correct option is A 485
The possible cases are:
Case I : A man invites (3 ladies) and woman invites (3 gentlemen)
4C34C3=16
Case II : A man invites (2 ladies,1 gentleman) and woman invites (2 gentleman, 1 lady)
(4C23C1)(3C14C2)=324
Case III : A man invites (1 lady, 2 gentlemen) and woman invites (2 ladies, 1 gentleman)
⇒(4C13C2)(3C24C1)=144
Case IV : A man invites (3 gentlemen) and woman invites (3 ladies)
3C33C3=1
Total number of ways
=16+324+144+1=485