The correct options are
A Have nearly equal electronegativity
B Form amphoteric oxides
C Have strong tendency to form complexes, BeF−24, AlF−36
D Both form dimeric halides
Electronegativities:
Be−1.57
Al−1.61
Both BeO and Al2O3 are amphoteric - as in they react with both acids as well as bases.
BeO+2HCl⟶BeCl2+H2O
BeO+2NaOH+H2O⟶Na2Be(OH)4
Likewise, Al2O3 is amphoteric:
Al2O3+6HCl⟶2AlCl3+3H2O
Al2O3+2NaOH+3H2O⟶2NaAl(OH)4
Also, they both form dimeric halides; Further, both can form complexes:
BeF−24, AlF−36