Concept–––––––––
Different terms for the same things (unknowns) can be merged, but terms for different things (unknowns) cannot.
Since both terms of the expression represents same thing(apples), when you add 5 apples and 7 apples together, you get 12 apples.
Since kiwis and camels are two distinct things, they cannot be combined.
Since 3x and 8x represent different numbers of the same thing, they can be combined.
Since 2x and 5y represent different numbers of different things, they can not be combined.